My wishes get me nowhere. My dreams get me anywhere. My actions get me there.

 

After owning two businesses for two decades, I finally got a real job... dream job actually! Combining my passions of technology, education, and skydiving, I was hired in January 2017 by the United States Parachute Association as Director of IT. Sadly, I am no longer taking on new web programming projects, but I'm still skydiving and teaching certification courses through Xcelskydiving and of course writing! Also, I am still available for public speaking events... just email me. This blog site serves to display my numerous previously published works as well as satisfy my continued urge for sharing my insights... you know, those thoughts you have at 4 o'clock in the morning.

Constructing the Right Goal

Let's face it, skydivers are type A goal setters and get things done! (Okay, most of us.) But just because you have a goal doesn't mean it's constructed well, or even the right one!

Goals have verbs. A well constructed goal contains a powerful verb usually as the first word of the phrase. For example, when setting goals for students, some may construct the goal as more of a "topic" like, "Section 2 BSRs." A goal with a verb might be "Understand the BSRs" but that's not powerful. Better is "Write out in plain language my own words the BSRs dealing with solo students." Another example, you might have a weak goal like "Better landings." With a strong verb that goal would look like: "Execute the flaring process using varying combinations of height and speed." Not only is that a measurable outcome, it helps you understand this goal has subgoals, and you can work on it more than one time every jump!

What about having the "right" goal? You can more assuredly choose an appropriate goal if you can imagine what happens after you "reach" it, like how runners keep pushing past the finish line in a race. Here's how having the right goal makes all the difference... Everyone credits Sir Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Sherpa as the first to summit Mount Everest. But that is certainly not true. I cannot be true, given what we know about human nature and all the carnage around the mountain. They were NOT the first to summit Mount Everest. They were the first to summit AND return. They had the right goal.

So keep going! Keep setting goals! And hopefully you'll think about how to construct the right one that propels you even further into badassery!

  • 14 May 2018
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Everyone credits Sir Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Sherpa as the first to summit Mount Everest. But that is certainly not true....

  • 14 May 2018
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Goal setting, self-improvement, advancement, augmentation, progress, development... It's a constant and insatiable chase to an over-glorified, vague end game that never ends.  I like activity, but I don't like that race. So, here's what being a lazy drummer taught me about getting better at stuff.

  • 29 April 2018
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Do you know what 120 mile per hour wind sounds like? That's the wind flowing past your body in freefall. It sounds like...

  • 29 April 2018
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"What's wrong with you?"
"For being so smart, you sure are stupid."
"You're being lazy."

The mean person saying these things to me is... me. These phrases come from the tape recorder in my head that plays over and over. We all "beat ourselves up" with our dysfunctional internal dialogue. It's not helpful. But how do you erase these phrases and record better ones?

  • 11 March 2018
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Rule Number One: Be Lazy

My new job has me with set office hours, so even though I'm sure I'm still getting some exercise, I have struggled with feeling more sedentary. But how do I ride this change without ill side effects?

I bought a treadmill desk.

  • 5 June 2017
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Risk Management vs. Risk Assessment

A skydiving student of mine remarked to me recently, “My non-skydiving friends just don’t understand why I skydive.  They don’t take chances with their lives.”  I replied, “That’s not true.  Do they ever drive on a two lane highway? When another car comes from the other direction, there’s a closing speed of 120 mph, same as our closing speed to the ground when we are in freefall, yet at a distance of only a few feet.  The difference is, I can see this huge planet Earth coming at me 10,000 feet away, but I can avoid hitting it at deadly speed simply by pulling a little handle.  On the highway, you never know what that guy in the other lane will do at the last second. He could be messing with his cell phone or under the influence… or eating his sandwich or texting grandma.”

What are the risks we accept unaware, without thinking? 

  • 19 March 2017
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The only thing that stays the same is that things change...

After being DZO of Skydive Kansas for 21 years, I accepted a full time position at USPA as Director of IT. I'm still traveling to teach courses as an eXaminer with Xcelskydiving. But I have never believed in spreading thin or watering down. After much contemplation, I made the bittersweet decision to close my dropzone. In an email to regular jumpers, I explain by starting with:

The only thing that stays the same is that things change.

  • 11 March 2017
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